Healing the Masculine and Feminine relationship

I am celebrating the beautiful masculine energy within myself, within you and within my environment. 

I have been leaning into the Feminine and Masculine energies within, for a long while now. Listening, learning, feeling, connecting and understanding.

I have been connecting to my own masculine energy to listen and understand what it needs, how it operates and observing what is healthy, serving my Highest Good and what needs to be healed and released.

I have been guided to connect to the inner relationship between my masculine and feminine. How do they interact? Are they loving and compassionate? Are they accepting, nurturing and holding space for each other?

BOOM! expansion. Awareness increased....again.

That was the part of my journey that needed to land when the time was right. When the Student is ready, the Teacher will appear". 

I have always valued unconditional love and knew that it was possible, achievable for me and for all, however "unconditional" has taken on a deeper meaning for me now. It is literally unconditional. You can't experience unconditional love by placing conditions on it. It's not a thought, it's not a feeling, it's an embodiment. It's a way of  BEing.

I believe in love and I always have. I remember when I was a teenager, saying that the only real thing in life is love. That is the only truth. Pretty wise for a 15 year old. I felt it, I knew it and I went out and unconsciously looked for it in all the places that would teach me a lesson and usually it was a painful lesson however it did teach me enough to get to this point. 

My sub-conscious belief was that love was something you receive in physical form. Even as I write this, that lands for me in the way of an epiphany. The world I grew up in, taught me that you receive love by doing something for someone. If you do something "good", cater to someone else's needs and demands, you will be rewarded. If you do something "bad", don't cater to someone else's needs or act in way that meets their expectations, you get pushed away. 

My masculine influence wasn't healthy. Many of us have been conditioned that way. I'm not here to blame anyone, it's just the way it has been until someone changes it. My masculine has served a purpose as a leader, a fighter, a provider and I am truly grateful for those qualities. Even as a polarity the not-so-helpful traits have also served a purpose however those traits have in various ways been dominating, selfish, judgmental, aggressive, possessive and fearful. 

My masculine has been unsure of itself, afraid to be seen, afraid to be out of control, dismissive of love, nurturing and emotions. 

My masculine has been learning how to be unconditional love. Love without expecting anything in return. It's not a childhood learned behaviour for me, it's a deep dive healing journey.

My masculine has been wounded by generational, conditioned ancestral belief systems, societies conditioned belief systems, misguided belief systems sexuality and duality. My BEing has been wounded by sexual, physical, emotional and psychological trauma and has therefore spent most of my lifetime in fight or fly and projecting those wounds into my environment. 

My Feminine has been in fear of the masculine for the same reasons and thus an imbalance and disconnect has prevailed until now. 

The relationships that I have had with Men and Women have mirrored the relationship between my own masculine and feminine energies. They have not all been safe and I have been desperate to understand why. They have reflected the wounded masculine and feminine imbalance in me,  that called for deep healing.

Since I have embarked  on my healing journey with more Consciousness, I have learned to connect and love my whole BEing from the inside, out. I have transcended my cells from wounding and fear and am navigating, bringing my masculine into balance with my feminine. Yin (feminine) and Yang (masculine) and when they balance, they are ONE. They are WHOLE. They are COMPLETE. My BEing is then COMPLETE. 

I am connecting and healing my Feminine, my sexuality, my sensuality,  my Intuition and nurturing strength. My Feminine is calling to feel safe with my Masculine and my Masculine is calling to be safe with my Feminine. Together they call for Connection, Peace, Balance and unconditional Love as they co-exist, navigate and create together as my WHOLE BEing. 

I have been seeking a a masculine in my external to join my feminine in union however I found the relationship within me. The balanced, healing, safe relationship that I have been seeking since I was a child and now, I can truly SEE YOU and now my relationship within myself will manifest in the 3D and we will balance, heal, co-exist and create together when you arrive. 

"They" say to love yourself before you can love another. 

I say, love is always there, See yourself, heal and create balance so that you can See another. 

I now invite you to ask yourself what your relationship is between your Masculine and Feminine energy,

Sharing with you in love, light and harmony

Skye